Bonobos are, together with chimpanzees, our living closest relatives; however we know very little about them — mostly through captive work. In Wamba, a most remote jungle location, Isabel Becke has observed unique aspects of bonobo lives (from imaginary play and laughter to inter-group encounters to accidents and death) that challenge and illuminate our understanding of human evolution. On the video below Isabel aims to link the play of adult bonobos to insights on human laughter, joy, creativity and our capacity for wonder and exploration.

Bonobos are very sexual animals and they see sex as play! The question is: What can we learn from Bonobo Monkeys?

Being bisexual is a distinct orientation, not a temporary stage, says the study by Lisa Diamond, an associate professor of psychology and gender studies at the University of Utah. It is being published next week in the January issue of Developmental Psychology, a journal of the American Psychological Association.

Diamond conducted face-to-face interviews around New York state in 1995, when the women (who identified themselves as lesbian, bisexual or unlabeled, but not heterosexual) were ages 18-25. She then spoke with them by phone every two years.

“These findings are therefore more consistent with the model of bisexuality as a stable identity than a transitional stage,” the study says.

Diamond suggests that most women “possess the capacity to experience sexual desires for both sexes, under the right circumstances.”

She found that bisexual women were more likely than lesbians to switch between describing themselves as bisexual and unlabeled, rather than to identify as lesbian or heterosexual.

“If it was a phase, it should have burnt out,” Diamond says. “They might have a change in identity and relationships, but that pattern of non-exclusive desire is still there, even among those who have married. It debunks the notion of it being a phase.”

Sociologist Paula Rust of East Brunswick, N.J., has conducted quantitative research on bisexuality and says Diamond’s study is important as the only long-term look at women’s bisexuality to date.

“What she’s doing is an in-depth study of people’s lives,” Rust says of the 79 women who participated. “For qualitative research, that’s a pretty good number.”

Other limitations noted in the study include a reliance on a small, exclusively female and disproportionately white and middle-class sample.

New attention has focused on young women today and their interest in experimenting with their own sexual identity, which Rust says is because the young are more open about sexuality and are more tolerant.

“I think young women are feeling a little bit freer,” Rust says. “If they have anything other than purely heterosexual feelings, they are more free to think about it … and question their identity.”

Diamond says heterosexual women may “experiment with same-sex desires and behaviors, but if they really are predominantly heterosexual, they may enjoy experimentation but may not change their sexuality.”

The study also debunks the stereotype that bisexual women aren’t able to commit to monogamous relationships because they’re always thinking about desire for the other gender.

Denise Penn, a clinical social worker who serves on the board of the American Institute of Bisexuality, based in San Diego, says there hasn’t been enough research on these questions:

“Women’s sexuality in general has taken a back seat in terms of research overall.”

If you have not done it yet, I recommend you to download my book: All Women are Bisexual at http://www.allwomenarebisexual.com

Enjoy

Suzy

Enjoy!

Suzy

I am sure you’ll enjoy this video:

I love the term ” The Sexiest” So I made a search and this is What I found:

The Sexiest Songs Ever

Sexiest Fan Babes

Sexiest Snow Bunnies

Sexiest NFL Cheeleaders

Sexiest Girls Alive

Sexiest Strippers in the Movies

Sexiest Female Farmer

Sexiest Magazine Covers

Sexiest Movie Posters

Sexiest Women in the World

What else have you found just by Googleing the word “Sexiest”? Please use the space below and share it with me

Suzy

I cannot believe this year is almost gone!

This has been a really different year for me! I had to take a “back seat” from my busy and erotic life and soon I will be “spilling the beans” of why and what happened, so keep an eye for that.

This year for Christmas, I will be sending all of you a FREE copy of my seasonal “masterpiece” called:  “How To Have a Threesome“  Before December 31st!  Look for an email in your Inbox soon to download your FREE Gift!

Now back to the post: “Tiger Woods Should be a Swinger”

Tiger Woods Should be a Swinger

I do not know about you, but  I am sick and tired of listening on every talk show about the sex life of Tiger Woods! This might sound weird but I do not blame him! Let’s face it: It is a fact that successful men have a stronger level of Testosterone than unseccessful men, Testosterone drives their passion and zest for achievement!

These guys NEED MORE SEX than regular males!  Tiger Woods is a successful,good looking guy and of course he’s got a lot of cash! This combination can easily create a “Molotoff Cocktail”.

I think it is a real pitty that swinging, needs to be in most cases “secret”! Trust me, if Tiger and his Wife were swingers they could easily fuck as many women as they would like without any complications whatsoever!

My hubby while being with me has fucked at least 100 other women and I am not pissed off or ready to divorce him! In fact I’ve seen him fuck most of them and it I love it!

I’m I twisted or crazy? Absolutely not!

Once and for all: MONOGAMY IS NOT THE NATURAL STATE OF THE HUMAN SPECIES!

It is just a real pitty that due to religion and obsolete traditions, we cannot enjoy carefree sex with whomever we want!  Now, I am not promiscuous and neither is my hubby! We both LOVE women and most importantly SEX! We have a loving relationship and we can easily separate sex from love.  THEY ARE TWO DIFFERENT THINGS! Though most  people get them mixed up!

If Tiger Woods and Elin Nordegren would understand the concept of being a swinger, they will not be having issues!

Possibly your question right now is: But she is GORGEOUS! How could he cheat on her???

To answer that question, let me ask you to think of your absolute favorite food…

For example, in my case Sushi is my absolute favorite food!  I LOVE EATING SUSHI!

BUT…

If I would like to eat sushi every day for 4 years…

I will be sick and tired of eating sushi!

I love my husband, he’s an amazing guy,he’s attractive, funny, intelligent, successful and we get along very well.

We, have had this conversation many times: If we will not be in the lifestyle even if we really get along we will both be more inclined to “cheat” on each other! Not because we do not love each other, not because we would like to hurt each other, simply because: THE HUMAN RACE IS NOT MONOGAMIST! Having sex with ONE PERSON for the ret of your life is NOT Natural PERIOD!

I like Tiger Woods, never met him, never followed him as a golfer, but he seems nice and genuine! I do not know thegossip or how he got along with his gorgeous wife.  But I tend to believe that he was not “cheating ” on her for the sake of hurting her! He was cheating on her for the reasons expressed above:

1) MONOGAMY IS NOT NATURAL!

2) HIGH LEVELS OF TESTOSTERONE

3) VARIETY

Now, please for a simple moment… suspend your disbelief and imagine that we would live on a real “Open Minded” world!

Would we be so OBSESSED about ” TheTiger Woods Affairs”?

I Don’t Think So?

What are your thoughts?

Suzy

Wild Women Vacations

Wanted: Wild Women

It’s not quite soft swing–soft swing lite, perhaps–although the action can get quite heavy depending on how much fun the girls just wanna have. In a couple of weeks, Las Vegas will witness (or wishes they could witness) another group of bisexual and bi-curious women exploring all facets of women-to-women contact (well, not UFC-style contact but most everything else) that one can fantasize about when envisioning a group of ready, willing and able-bodied females who enjoy, or would like to enjoy, the pleasures of the same, softer sex.

It’s that time of year again when a woman’s thoughts turns towards, well, towards other women. It’s Wild Women Vacations and the party plane touches down in Sin City August 21st-23rd and part of the Rio Hotel turns into a sensual playground for one or more of the following:
* STRAIGHT Women With BISEXUAL Fantasies
* BI-CURIOUS Women Seeking Their First Beautiful Experience
* BISEXUAL Women Whose Motto is…”SO MANY WOMEN, SO LITTLE TIME”
(the above was lifted directly from their Wild Women Vacations website)

Do you fit in any of those categories? Well, then, c’mon over to Sin City and get a taste, so to speak, of an experience that you won’t soon forget!

If you’ve ever caught the VH-1 “documentary” “Women Seeking Women: A Bi-Curious Journey” then you’re familiar with Beth and Rob, the hosts of both the Hedonism events depicted in the TV show and the similar Las Vegas version happening in a couple of weeks. These parties are not swing events, per se, as the ladies’ male partners don’t get to participate other than watch in wonderment (although couples can certainly hook up after the Wild Women get-togethers for their own fired-up after-party). But they are a perfect way for a lusty lady to meet and interact with more females than at a traditional swing party.
Enjoy

Suzy

I found this fascinating story today:

Michael Phelps  decided to host a wild party at his apartment in Baltimore. He and his swim buddies were joined by a number of hot lap dancers.Ansman007, Project World Awareness, Apr 2009

You should read the whole article.

I got this joke from one of my Girlfriends this morning and wanted to share it with you it is quite funny:

A guy goes to the supermarket and notices an attractive woman waving at him.
She says hello. He’s rather taken aback because he can’t place where he knows
her from.

So he says, ‘Do you know me?’

To which she replies, ‘I think you’re the father of one of my kids.’

Now his mind travels back to the only time he has ever been unfaithful to his wife and says, ‘Are you the stripper from the bachelor party that I made love to on the pool table with all my buddies watching while your partner whipped my butt with wet celery?’

She looks into his eyes and says calmly, “No, I’m your son’s teacher.”

You see this is the col thing of being a Swinger

These type of embarrasments would never happen to you

Enjoy

Suzy